Jem and Scout's father, Atticus, treats his kids with respect, he's alert, loving and is an overall good father. He cares a lot for his kids and obviously loves them. "I felt his hand on the back of my head. 'Don't you worry about anything, it's not time to worry.'" (134) As I said, he cares for his kids, but he also cares for everyone around him, setting a great example for his kids. At the part in the story where Jem ruins Mrs. Dubose's flowers, Atticus handles the situation really well by saying, "Son, I have no doubt that you've been annoyed by your comtemporaries about me lawing for n-, as you say, but to do something like this to a sick old lady is inexcusable. I strongly advise you to go down and have a talk with Mrs. Dubose..." (104) He knows how to be serious with the kids but in a friendly way. When Atticus talks to them like that, he doesn't scare them and makes them understand that there are few things he really enforces, but when he does he's serious.
My parents are similar and different to Atticus. They both are similar to him when they talk to me, they are as friendly as possible. If I get in trouble with my mom, she will tell me what she didn't like that I did, and one small pause she starts up a whole different conversation trying not to bring the conversation back to that point. If I get in trouble with my dad, he is extremely suttle about what I did wrong and tries not to make a conflict about it. My parents are different however, because they give me a lot of freedom, but not enough to not know where I am or what I am doing. In the book, Atticus doesn't know every single thing they do or exactly where they are in Maycomb especially in the summer because he is pretty chill about it. The idea of Atticus as a father seems pretty cool, but I would rather have the daddyy I have now. The End. =]